Maybe you shared an office and worked on a project
together.
Maybe the two of you were in the same movie.
Maybe you were baristas in the same coffee house.
Maybe you taught in the same school.
Maybe you found yourselves assigned to the same
firehouse after graduating from the academy.
And then they died.
The first four books in the Friend Grief series have included some people who worked together:
first responders on 9/11, active duty military, war correspondents and actors.
All shared a love of their jobs and a deep affection for their friends. All
struggled with the grief of losing their friends – sometimes violently and
suddenly.
My next book - Friend
Grief in the Workplace: More Than an Empty Cubicle – expands the notion of
‘workplace’.
When someone talks about their job, or their work,
most would imagine a desk in a high-rise office building. But that would be a
very narrow view of how people spend most of their waking hours.
Some of the workplaces you’ll be invited into in the
next book include:
A local
TV news station
A
major newspaper
A
neighborhood coffee house
A
church
An
elementary school
A
medical center
A convent
Imagine that your friend died, and to make matters
worse, you couldn’t escape the grief at work – because the friend worked with
you every day. Compounding the grief is the loss of a productive person in your
workplace.
Maybe you were assigned to do their work until they
could be replaced, dramatically increasing your own workload.
Maybe the balance of power shifted in the workplace,
and others were now jockeying for your friend’s job.
Maybe you resented the person who replaced them.
And maybe you were angry at being told “snap out of
it – there’s work to do.”
If any of these scenarios sound familiar, you’ll
identify with the people in the next book, coming in November.
And in the meantime, take a minute to think about
the people you work with, the ones who you count as friends. And consider that
those friendships may be more valuable than you thought.
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